Name: Monica
Age: 42
Family: Mother with 13-year-old son
Occupation: Homemaker and homeschooler
Dentures: Needs to have three more teeth removed before getting full uppers and lowers
"I'm ready for the changes dentures will bring."
Ever since her son was born, Monica has loved taking his picture. But you'll almost never see her in the frame. "I don't like to see my smile," says Monica. "I'm a really outgoing person, so I smile and talk a lot, but when the camera comes out, I clam up."
"I never really learned how to take care of my teeth as a child. So every time I went to the dentist, I was terrified," Monica recalls. As she got older and the condition of her teeth worsened, Monica dealt with the pain rather than taking steps to fix her smile. She remembers, "In my 20s they told me I might need dentures, but I kept putting it off. It was the drilling sound that got to me. Just hearing that sound would make me run out of the office."
For more 20 years, Monica avoided doing something about her teeth. She kept changing dentists. She avoided being in pictures. She tolerated the pain. A couple of years ago, Monica finally decided to do something about it. "I was thinking about working again. And I don't want to be cruel, but to get a good job, appearance matters!"
After talking to her dentist, she realized that dentures were her most affordable option. "I talked to family members who had dentures and did research online," says Monica. "Some people had a bad experience, but for the most part, I was surprised... most of the people I talked to were really comfortable with their dentures." The more she learned, the less afraid she was. "I wanted to hear about the good stories and the bad," she recalls. "It's great to know that you are not alone."
Monica is currently in the process of getting all of her teeth removed. "The process isn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be, especially when you compare it to the pain I lived with for the last 20 years. That was worse than anything. I'm ready to get my dentures now," she explains. "Sure, I'm still nervous every time I go to the dentist, but soon, I think I'm going to feel good about my smile. Do you know how long it's been since I've felt that way?"
As she moves closer to getting her first set of dentures, Monica hopes her story can help others in similar situations. But more importantly, she looks forward to putting her smile back in the picture.

Meet Monica
Posted: August 17, 2009 3:24 pmReplies: 10
Meet Monica
Posted: August 17, 2009 3:24 pm
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Posted: September 11, 2009 9:42 am
How did Monica decide where to get dentures?
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Posted: August 11, 2010 11:34 am
Wow, I thought I was reading my own story! Only I waited another 12 years.
Now I'm a grandmother, have lots of photos, but I'm only in a few, and never smiling.
I'm also looking at returning to the work force and while it isn't right, people do judge your ability to work, on your teeth.
By the time I started high school.... old fashion braces for 6 years, then a filling in every tooth, and a horrible fear of the dentist. When I hit my 30's I tried going to the dentist, guess I picked the wrong one, he did a root canal, and didn't do anything for the pain while he was working on me.
I'm going in Aug. 20 they will pull and I will come out with temps.
To tell you the truth, I'm as nervous as a long tail cat in a room full of rocking chairs.
I did splurge a little, will have regular dentures on the top, but got 'all on 4' for the bottom.
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Posted: August 29, 2010 10:07 am
I just had the last 12 teeth in my mouth removed on August 9th. My teeth were going bad since I was 40 (Im 52 now). I pulled more of my own teeth than the dentist did. It wasnt easy to eat and I definitely didnt want to smile; let alone have my picture taken. Monica, you will be so glad when you get your dentures; the pain from the extractions only lasted 2 weeks for myself. Before I got my dentures, I felt that people werent looking at me, they were looking at the bad teeth in my mouth. Now, I feel that they look at me normally. Monica, you will be glad when you get your dentures! Rose









